Confrontation... what do you associate with this word: arguing, fighting, debating perhaps agreeing? Uh maybe not agreeing, but definitely opposition. Some people avoid it, while others LOVE it. Is it necessary, YES, but not always. Will it get you what you want, YES, but not always. Is it important to be the aggressor, YES, but not always. Regardless of how you approach your battles of life, the real win comes from understanding and learning something from them.